there were two things i was certain of when i got engaged
the guy i was going to marry
and that there would be mason jars at my wedding
lots of them
everything else seemed to fall into place
around all the mason jars of course
...and then came baby...



Friday, November 5, 2010

we are so good together

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happy friday!

in or near nyc this weekend? if so, you're going to want to check out lucky shops.

just picture all of your favorite designers under one roof + cocktails + music + friends. oh & then imagine it's all up to 70% off!!!

it's quite lovely.

have a glorious weekend.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

give a shout out: review your vendors

you survived your wedding day...congratulations!

you've recuperated from all the planning & excitement and are adjusting to life after the honeymoon.

now you only have a few things left to take care of. i know, i know.

THANK YOUS.

besides the customary thank you card to all of your guests, you should really thank all of your vendors too. in my opinion, the best way to thank your vendors (besides tipping of course) is to give them a rave review.

not only do i make sure to continue to review my vendors on various wedding websites, BUT, i simply can't shut up about them. word of mouth is one of the best forms of marketing for all your vendors.

every single one of our vendors were booked based on reviews we had received from friends, friends of friends or personal experience.

a good vendor is something to cherish. you don't realize how important a good vendor is until you get a bad one. i was lucky enough to walk away from our wedding day with zero complaints about any of our vendors and would highly recommend them to everyone looking to get married in the CT area.

that being said, here's a little shout out to all of our vendors!

THANK YOU!!!!

photographer: afterglow photos
ceremony & reception location: florence griswold museum
ceremony & reception flowers: windham gardens
ceremony & reception music: eta music

Monday, November 1, 2010

make it personal: wood envelope templates from the spoon sisters

i'm currently in love with these customizable wood envelope templates from the amazing spoon sisters.

i don't know about you, but it absolutely makes my day when i find a handwritten note in my mailbox.

when i saw these fantastic wood envelope templates i knew i just had to share with all of you.

this is the perfect way to add a special touch to your wedding invitations and thank you cards.

but who needs a wedding as an excuse?!

reach out to a long lost pal or cheer up a buddy in need of a smile.

the best news is that the folks over at the spoon sisters have extended a discount to all you ATMJ readers!

enter code masonjarspoon for 15% off an order of any size before midnight 12/31/10.

happy shopping!

Friday, October 29, 2010

happy halloweenie

{via martha stewart}

wishing you all a happy & safe halloween!!

we're having a few friends over this evening to carve pumpkins & eat hearty fall food. yummmm

still haven't figured out a costume yet, but i just saw this funny video from the daily candy crew & now have a few last minute DIY ideas up my sleeve. check it out!

ciao for now : )

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

spotlight on margot + kevin: real wedding

it's that terrific time of year when everyone's inner child comes out to play. halloween is just around the corner, which makes today's wedding a perfect fit! margot & kevin tied the knot on the fantastic festive day just one year ago in a gorgeous chapel in old town chicago. they continued the festivities at the amazing university club of chicago, which lent a wonderful gothic feel to the entire day as you're about to see. what i love about their halloween nuptials (besides everything), is that they didn't let it take over their decor, while at the same time, didn't shy away from getting into the spirit of the day. everything about this couple gives off a fun vibe, from the skull & bones bow tie to the angel wings. i love all of it & am certain you will too. enjoy!

love this picture for many reasons (the fireplace would be one)

we got married at st. michael's, an old church, that survived the great chicago fire
in old town
. we picked it because it was very ornate and had a lot of chicago history. because it was so ornate, as you can see from the pictures, we didn't use any flowers in the church. instead, we used glass encased pillar candles to line the aisle. i thought this was super clever and had never seen it anywhere before. also, the church would not let us throw anything, (flower petals, rice, etc.) so the flower girl just carried a rose ball, which she then quickly destroyed after the ceremony was over.

gorgeous lighting

candles make everything pretty

the flower girl's rose ball

GOR-GEOUS altar

let's give it up for the newly married couple

mr & mrs

we get by with a little help from our friends

he's learning quickly

we chose the university club of chicago because my husband really liked it & it helped that my dad is a member of the club. it turned out to be the best place for a halloween wedding because of its mysterious and gothic feel, which i loved. the stained glass windows and wood ceiling added a lot of character. i also knew that they served great food, took care of the cake, and had hotel rooms for guests. it is located in downtown chicago on michigan avenue overlooking millennium park and lake michigan. we had a lot out of town guests and we wanted to give them a real chicago experience.

this room is simply amazing

even better in color!

the couple steal a kiss before the party gets going

absolutely love her dress

love the deep red centerpieces

the first dance

my cake was red velvet to match the decor. i had a chocolate buttercream frosting on the outside instead of the traditional white fondant.

devilishly good

Yum, with a capital "Y"

trick or treat

here come the costumes

love bow ties in general, but this one takes the cake

i absolutely love all of their flowers

yes, those are feathers

everything was pretty great, but my favorite part of the wedding day was after dinner during dancing when everyone started getting into their halloween costumes. some people put on face paint, others used napkins as headbands, and some even had capes and vampire fangs. i got to put on my angel wings that seemed to match my dress perfectly. i also had given my bridesmaids black masquerade masks that had a little sparkle in them. there were touches of halloween everywhere but it was not overwhelming. i had black feathers and "hocus pocus" roses in my bouquet. kevin had a skull and crossbones cuff links and bow tie which just looked like polka dots from afar. during cocktail hour we had spiderweb design linens which were later used for the the candy station. we had to have a trick or treat candy station as our favors for our guests, where they could make there own treat bag on the way out. kevin and i were really happy that we could celebrate halloween during the wedding. everyone enjoyed themselves.

the happy couple

love the mask

how fantastic are angel wings on a bride?!

perfection!

i don't think i could have found a better picture to end with

advice to other brides, if you are doing a halloween theme, careful not to over do it. i would get so excited about using all the great halloween decorations available out there, but then it started to focus more on halloween and less about the wedding/marriage. i decided to cut out a bunch of halloween stuff and just have touches here and there. one thing i wish i would have done would be to use small-medium sized pumpkins on the tables to designate the table numbers.

thank you so much to margot & kevin for sharing these amazing photos with us. your wedding was absolutely gorgeous and made me very excited for halloween!

vendors:

dress:
ultimate bride
location:
the university club of chicago
food and cake:
the university club of chicago
flowers and design:
heffernan morgan
linens:
bbj linens
chairs:
hall's rentals
music:
the stu hirsh orchestra
photography:
stephen green photography
videographer:
chicago video works
day of coordinator:
an urban affair
limos: s
teve win signature transportation
paper good:
joanna walker design
bridesmaids dresses: jenny yoo collection

Monday, October 25, 2010

see it to believe it: requesting fabric swatches

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sometimes the best deals are online. only problem with ordering online is that a beautiful sage green dress might look more like pea soup when it arrives in the mail.

i had my own little run-in with online color deceit. i had been on the hunt for a yellow dress for my bridesmaids & finally found what i thought was the perfect strapless dress online. i hastily had all of my bridesmaids purchase one without seeing it for myself in person. i received a text message from one of my bridesmaids about a week later that said something along the lines of, "got the dress today! it's very pretty & really bright." i immediately asked her to bring it over. as soon as i saw the dress, i realized she was being a top notch bridesmaid by downplaying the whole thing. it was highlighter yellow. i mean, glow-in-the-dark, blinding, bright yellow. luckily, the online retailer we purchased from was beyond flexible and ended up taking back all of the dresses & gave full refunds.

MOST online retailers, especially those that carry bridesmaid dresses, have fabric & color swatches for all their dresses & are happy to share with consumers.

after the highlighter dress debacle, i inspected all dresses in person or had an online retailer send me a swatch.

sometimes that blush pink dress online really looks like blush pink in person, but why risk the chance of getting hot pink?

Friday, October 22, 2010

all-inclusive trip for two: yes, please!

brides magazine and daily candy have teamed up to offer a 5-night all-inclusive getaway for one lucky reader (plus a guest, of course). go here to enter for a chance to win. i already did : )