there were two things i was certain of when i got engaged
the guy i was going to marry
and that there would be mason jars at my wedding
lots of them
everything else seemed to fall into place
around all the mason jars of course
...and then came baby...

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

spotlight on lauren + mike + baby: real baby shower

i am super excited to share this beautiful winter wonderland baby shower with all of you. today's mama-to-be just happens to be my sister-in-law, and in my humble opinion, she did an absolutely amazing job putting together this baby shower. i'm quite proud, if that isn't obvious. their little bambino is going to be one lucky kid and there will be absolutely no shortage of love coming his way. i truly loved the personal touches and attention to detail that she put into every aspect of the day. see for yourself. enjoy!


In early December, my mother and father threw us a brunch style shower at Tavistock Country Club. Tavistock CC is located in the beautiful and quaint little town of Haddonfield, NJ, and our shower was on the larger side with over 80 guests in attendance. I was so appreciative of all the love and support we received from our family and friends to celebrate the soon-to-be arrival of our little bundle of joy. The shower was a buffet set-up that allowed everyone to not only choose what they wanted, but also how much of the different items they liked, from freshly baked pastries to eggs Benedict and french toast casserole among others. We made sure there was more than enough variety so that everyone felt full and pleased, which at a baby shower (or any shower for that matter), is important! There were multiple brunch items as well as hand carved ham and pork. Although it was a buffet style shower, we still wanted the formal place settings as well as traditional linens and china to keep with the feel of the country club and shower.

the beautifully decorated room

mmmmm, i'll have a bite of this please

...and one of these too

...and top it off with one of these

Guest book: My husband and I wanted to do something special for the guest book. We created a customized photo book that chronicles the pregnancy from the start of our relationship to the 31 week mark. It included our announcement story to our families, pictures of the pregnancy and my growing baby bump throughout each stage, as well as baby pictures of my husband and I. We chose to use Shutterfly to make the hard bound book, but I know that other online picture sites such as iPhoto & Snapfish also offer this service (piece of advice: leave yourself enough time!). We left it up to the guests to write some advice to my husband and I, or to leave a note for our son. The book will eventually be given to our little bambino to have as a keepsake. It will be nice to look back at who attended the shower and the thoughtful words of advice they left.

personalized guestbook alongside a sonogram of the bambino

adorable invitation

Desserts: There was a wide array of different desserts from homemade biscottis and pizzelles, courtesy of my Aunts, to hand dipped chocolate pretzels. Not only that, but there was a red and white themed candy table that my sister-in-law and mother-in-law put together! This included rock candy, candied apples and specially ordered, old fashioned Hammonds ribbon candy and swirl lollipops, not to mention chocolates such as 3 Muskateers, Ghirardelli and Lindt truffles. I don't think there was a candy missing from this table! My SIL and MIL focused on all of the white and red candy, and to contribute in some fashion, my mother and I were on the hunt for the silver and navy blue candy to tie in the entire color theme. The guests absolutely loved the idea and enjoyed selecting what they wanted for dessert. I had customized bags made which I used an online vendor to order. I highly recommend using any wedding website that makes customized napkins/matches, etc. They were very reasonably priced and I got to design them myself. As for the cupcakes, we had 7 different flavors totaling 84 cupcakes (you can view her amazingly unique flavors on her website) that were stacked on a tree tiered display that Tavistock provided.


Theme colors: We chose the theme colors based on a variety of things: we wanted to capture the all-American / Christmas / sports themes (Phillies and New England Patriots of course) and lastly, St. Joseph's University colors (my husband and I are both Alum) with a Red, White, Navy Blue and Silver color palette. We thought it captured everything we would want to represent our interests and personalities as well as the baby boy theme.

these were super cute, but if you could taste them you'd probably melt...
they were DELICIOUS!

Flowers: We used poinsettia center pieces to keep it simple, classic and appropriate for the Christmas Season. The wonderful staff at Tavistock decorated the room with wreaths on all the windows, as well as a ceiling high Christmas tree. There was also a beautiful fireplace to set the mood and 180 degree, panoramic views of the golf course. We used the Christmas tree to hang the favors, which were white snow baby ornaments holding red candy canes customized with navy ribbons that read "Baby Pagliaro 2011".

simple & beautiful holiday decor

adorable favor idea for all you winter brides & mamas-to-be!

I received a lot of extremely thoughtful gifts which made me realize how loved this little boy will be with all of these excited friends and family. One gift that really stood out was the surprise bassinet my mother had made for our baby. This gift, in particular, was really unique because it was made out of the same wedding dress she wore over 30 years ago! Luckily, she had her dress preserved and stored so that when it was opened, it was still as white as the very day she wore it. To keep it from looking too feminine (since we are having a little boy!), the seamstress used only very light beading and lace, and focused more on the simpler fabric from the dress. The hood of the bassinet was made from my mom's veil.

customized bassinet, such a unique & special idea

clothesline that goes on...and on...and on...
Another very creative and thoughtful gift was a clothesline my mother-in-law made that included a variety of different baby clothes in sizes ranging from newborn to 2 years old. We were also lucky enough to receive several homemade blankets and all of the baby necessities you can think of, I don't think we will need to buy anything for quite a while thanks to all of our friends and family! My husband and I are beyond grateful for all that was done for us and our son, and can not thank everyone enough. Your baby shower is so special - make sure you include everything you really want. You only get one, so make it good! As for now, we're just awaiting the arrival of our son who should be here in just a couple of short weeks!! God Bless.

thanks to the future parents for sharing such a beautiful shower with all of us here at ATMJ. i can't wait to meet the little guy! much love...xoxo


Venue - Tavistock Country Club
Cupcakes - How Sweet it is
Photography by Matt Mead
Stationary - Details Rittenhouse Square

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